Do you remember that moment when you saw her for the first time? When your heart started to pound as if you have just completed an 800 meters race, feeling hard to breathe. When your eyes became a converging lens focusing on someone, keeping your background blurred. When you thought she had ordered Cupid to strike an arrow straight through your heart and stole it. The one who is walking infront of you, the one on whom your gaze is fixed, the one you were convinced would be the one to light up your world like nobody else. It was the moment you believed that love at first sight is possible, but soon realized that it was just another mere Hollywood blockbuster.
Similarly, a woman said about her lover, "I loved him at first sight. And the very first time in my life I ever felt passionately was the moment I saw him. It was a feeling so loving, so tender, so wild, so overwhelming and breath-taking, and all-involving, a feeling I did not know before."
But many of us, do believe in love at first sight above all those arguments. It's not because of the age factor, as maximum non-believers are aged or love failures. But we believe in the magical spell of that feeling. Everyday we see hundreds of women, beautiful and not. That is not what we find when we saw hundreds but it is something that stands unique out of the hundreds.
"As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on."
Similarly, a woman said about her lover, "I loved him at first sight. And the very first time in my life I ever felt passionately was the moment I saw him. It was a feeling so loving, so tender, so wild, so overwhelming and breath-taking, and all-involving, a feeling I did not know before."
The biggest question of debate that stands tall and the greatest weapon of attack in the hands of non-believers is that love at first sight is just a feeling, how can it weigh upon your entire love life. When you see a girl, you may find her attractive but you never know she may turn into a jealous gal or a vengeful vixen, in worst cases may be both. When you like her, all her negative traits fall in the backyard or neutralized by her looks. But in the long run, looks will fade away and only behavior prevails. What about it then? These are the series of arguments that give the non-believers an edge and in many cases an upper hand.
But many of us, do believe in love at first sight above all those arguments. It's not because of the age factor, as maximum non-believers are aged or love failures. But we believe in the magical spell of that feeling. Everyday we see hundreds of women, beautiful and not. That is not what we find when we saw hundreds but it is something that stands unique out of the hundreds.
"As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on."
Research has demonstrated that initial evaluations have significant influence on long-term relationships. The positive evaluations present in love at first sight therefore have a positive impact upon the relationship. In this sense, if love at first sight develops into a long-term relationship, the relationship has a greater chance of achieving better quality.
"You will never have a second chance to make a good first impression."
Love at first sight is an amazing encounter; one that I hope everyone can come face to face with someday. Its amazing to see that one person and have an instant connection.
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