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Different Stages of Love

Different Stages Of Love
“L O V E” a 4 letter word which has the capacity to destroy the dynasties. Well coming to the point. When does a person actually know that he is in love..? What happen when he is in love…?? What are his/her feelings when he in love…?? The answers of these are in the article Different stages of love by 9Degrees lets go to that.

FIRST STAGE:
Love may happen at any time and at any second. People who fall in love can be classified into two types
*People who fall in Love at First Sight
*People who fall in love after some time or very long time.

-> For people who fall in love at first sight: The beauty of the love is you don’t know when it will reach your heart. Love at first sight is one such thing which happens to each of us. Some people take it to be attraction some people take it as love. It is obvious that love at first sight is purely based on good looks. A person who has that attractive looks will reach your heart.
->For people who fall in love after some time: Each and every person in this world lacks something . Whenever you find that the emptiness in you is being filled by someone you feel some kind of gratitude towards them which eventually turns to be “LOVE”.
This is the first stage of love.

SECOND STAGE: This stage is common for both the people. At this stage the feeling of love will grow. In fact they grow exponentially. This kind of feeling is called as “CRUSH”.

*Whenever you are talking to her your heart beat will speed up.
*You can always sense their presence.
*Your heart will be restless whenever you get praised by them.
*Their name will give you an external energy.
* You start liking each and everything they do.
* Your heart will be greedy you always be like getting closer to her.
*You always like to start a conversation with her.
* You silently stare at her to know whether they are looking at or not. Even a small glance of her will make you stop your important works.
*Whenever he/she is moving closely with someone of opposite gender you can the pain of jealous. You can sense the feeling of lost. You treat yourself as love failure. There will be conflicts between your mind and heart in fact a war. If your love is true you will overcome this or else your love will be sweet memory in the name of “CRUSH”
This is the second stage.

THIRD STAGE OF LOVE:
If you get survived from the second stage you will reach this stage. This stage can be aptly compared to the stage of “Friendship vs Love”.

*Day by day you will get closer to them. They begin to feel your company to be great.
*You will be absolutely in a great wonder when they’ll start a conversation with you.
*They start sharing each and everything with you their happiness their sorrows everything.
*They start trusting you, encouraging you, teasing you.
*Even you start sharing your sorrows and happiness with them
*There will be a good understanding between both of you. There will be a strong bond between you *You don’t know whether to feel happy or bad when they call you your “BEST FRIEND”
*You are afraid to express your love on them. You don’t want to lose them and you don’t want to be their BEST FRIEND . Your heart doesn’t agree with this. One hand you cannot avoid them on other hand you cannot be friend.
*Your heart wants to know what kind of feelings they have on you. You are afraid of telling them about your love because you don’t want to lose them.
*Finally if you didn’t express your love you will be their “ONE OF THE BEST FRIEND”

FOURTH STAGE:
This stage is only for the people who expressed their love and the other person also accepts it.
This is the exact stage where you can feel “LOVE IS THE GREATEST THING IN THE EARTH”

*You really feel blessed and you really feel them as yours. * Everything in the world will be beautiful to you.
*You always want to talk to them, be with them, tease them.
*You feel really blessed whenever they sacrifice something for you and you always want to see them happy.
*You will enjoy the blossom of love you feel like you are made for each other and you dream of your future with them.
*You feel like touching them, kissing them and all other sort of feelings your lust covers your love. *Many people often feel lust as love for them if their lust is fulfilled it is the end point of their love. *You start adjusting for them at begining it will be good and you start to getting annoyed for those adjustments. *Slowly you feel like problems are creeping you and you can’t bear their mistakes. *You jealous becomes excessive possessiveness and even you can’t bear theirs too. This is point where “POSSESSIVENESS BECOMES SPYING”
*You start to hate them, complain about them.
*Your anger will dominate your love and you forget all the beautiful moments with them.
This is the point where many people take up decision which is called as “BREAK UP” and those people remain in their memories as “EX”.

FIFTH STAGE:
This is the stage where LOVE gets a good friend called RESPONSIBILTY. This stage is only for those lovers who want to be one. Those who forget their anger and they accept what their partner is.

*You really want to share your life with her and you realize how important she is.
*You start to increase your patience, you will use your past memories to cover the present fights.
*You make your partner dream about future life with you. And you start working hard to achieve it.
* You will make sure that there is no communication gap even if it is there you will understand them and both play a supportive role.
*Both of the people’s desire to be one will make you to overcome all the problems you face and finally you will marry them. You end up this stage with “BEING MARRIED” Wait wait this not the end of the love…???

SIXTH STAGE:
This is the stage where you will grow older where all the lust will be gone and only the purest form of love is present in your heart .

This stage cannot be described in words this can only be felt by your heart. Just imagine at the age of 80 sleeping on the laps of your partner and telling them “I LOVE YOU” is the biggest success a couple can ever get in the life. Only few people can enjoy this moment. “The biggest success for any couple”. Hope who ever read this article will keep their love safe up to this stage.
WISHING YOU A VERY HAPPY VALENTINE WEEK

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