Rebound Love

Has anyone ever heard about Rebound Love?? In simple terms we can say rebound means to recover from an incident and to get back to a better position. When we relate it with love it means a different thing and it can be given in terms of an example:- When a person tries to care for someone, but realize that they wouldn’t get that kind of care back, they search for someone else who would understand them and comfort them making them forget their previous bad experiences.

Rebound love can happen really when there is a possibility of the person is seeking to forget the past which he had. It is a connection to another person that keeps us from having to experience to the full extent of the emotional pain. It is a distraction for people to come out of their past incident. It is the one in which we can drain out our pain by reveling in the emotional intensity and passion of a new found love.

Rebound love cannot be possible in many cases as there are many thoughts going through the person’s mind who has experienced it. After they end their relationship, there will be many difficulties as they can not keep out everything out and resulting to lose their close friends. Finally, it leads to being avoided by their close friends. They completely lose their sight of goal which they have in their life. They convince themselves they are in love when in reality they are really missing the relationship they left behind. It also does not mean that they want their old partner back it just means that they want to be in a relationship with somebody and in a rebound phase that somebody could be anybody. The person ends up getting hurt when the rebounder comes into the mind. The person can never be open to a new love until they have cleared their past from their senses. There is a possibility if there are unresolved issues from the old relationship chances are very good that the new relationship is a rebound too.

Many people can not find new love when they have harboring feelings for an old love or when they are longing to be in a with their present crush (relationship). Love can not be forced at will, it must be found and that can only become real when their hearts and minds are free from having any such thoughts.

This will be much easier to understand if its given in the form of an example:-There used to be a boy who was very much interested in a girl and he used to care a lot about his crush and used to worry a lot about her. As the days passed and the mind set of the boy started to change slowly. There were thoughts developed in the boys mind to and as the days are passed he tries to maintain distance with her. In the meanwhile he will be in search of another person who would show the same interest towards him and same amount of care he used to take care about the girl that the boy left. In this situation the boy is in complete dilemma and he will be seeking to have some help. There enters a girl into his life at this situation and making him forget all his past and worries he had. At this moment the guy will have very good opportunity to become stable.